tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2370462866226642863.post8244830107610164877..comments2018-07-26T10:28:18.143-07:00Comments on LDS Breakups: #1 To-DoLDS Breakupshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04319357101724380865noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2370462866226642863.post-56722447022185454112012-05-17T19:38:30.925-07:002012-05-17T19:38:30.925-07:00people will want so badly for a courtship to work ...people will want so badly for a courtship to work that they can’t hear the Lord’s messages because of their own desires.<br /><br />Some couples may argue that they received a spiritual confirmation of their relationship. Why, then, didn’t it work out? It’s possible, of course, that you wanted so badly for it to work out that you misinterpreted spiritual feelings and, in essence, put words in God’s mouth. But there’s another possibility: People change. Though the dating relationship was right at one time, it isn’t anymore. The spiritual confirmation could have been an assurance of the relationship’s capacity, its possibility, its potential. But it wasn’t a guarantee of ultimate fruit.<br /><br />Since relationships can’t change from romance to friendship in a day or a week, it may be unrealistic and even hurtful for the two of you to spend much time together once the decision has been made. The person who initiated the break-up may be thinking, “Isn’t it civilized and nice that we can be friends?” But the other will be secretly hoping for the friendship to develop back into a romance. And if the romance can never be revived, feelings will be hurt even more deeply.<br /><br /><br />love these points. i just might have bee guilty about wanting something so bad i was ignoring the promptings of the lord.<br /><br />and look here..hes totally defending me not wanting to talk to my boy. it makes things harder!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17535394948629051983noreply@blogger.com